Friends And Foes

So, I'm here.
There is no one at KS/CN Chatbox, not even doldol dodo.
I guess I will be spending my time here, writing craps again. :)
A quote from my tuition teacher suddenly lead me to a topic where i dreamed of writing it ages ago.

The one closest and nearest to you is actually the one most dangerous to you.

You know what?
I really agreed with him since I had seen so much of this kind of person in my schools, not to mention who though :P
I had been living in this world for 17 years, not very long and it certainly not a short period as well.I was told and taught by teacher about the do's and the don'ts and I had seen so much of different personalities and different kind of person in term of how they treat us.Friends, those who are our companion in school/work,sharing our laughter and tears,siding us when we are in hot water or someone treating you unfair.That's friend.Foes,on the other hand , are those preventing you to do this and that,treating you badly.Those are foes.Yet, are friends really as simple as that? 17 years of living in this materialistic world, i noticed everything start with "A" is not 100% ended with "Z".You know what I mean?

Among my friends, there is 1 particular girl who is kinda fond of attention of everyone especially guys.I never know how wicked she is till she showed her true personality.Everytime she get a single assignment or task to be done and there are failures during the process, she will be pointing her fingers at other people,insisting that she done her part and she is ALWAYS right.You see,even though this kind of attitude is quite annoying,we never hate her, scold her or insult her.There is a saying there that taught us not to think of her wrongs.Let bygone be bygone.But sometimes when you tolerate with her, thinking that she will learn her lessons 1 day and turn over a new leaf, YOU ARE WRONG.
There is a saying in malay that I think I should include in this post.
"Beri paha mahu betis."

You give a dog a drumstick.

The next moment, it demands more from you.

That's what i mean.
When you tolerate with her, she tends to do more annoying stuff to you.
She's having fun with it even though she knows that it really annoyed you.
What i gonna say here is, non of us(excluding an asshole that 100% trust her) really treat her as our friend.I don't think anyone out there can believe this when i tell you what she did in the past, treating those she called friends.
This particular bitch "babe" had a friend who treat her like real sister which I will call Miss Pig.When the bitch "babe" faces problem, the one that helping her is Miss Pig.When she need transportation to tuition or school, the one sending her to the destination is Miss Pig.Yet, as Miss Pig herself is a pleasant and kind lady, 3 guys falling in love with her simultaneously,attracting attention more than that particular bitch "babe".The bitch "babe" seemed to be jealous of Miss Pig and back stabbed her.She sms her friend telling bad things about Miss Pig.Jealousy is indeed the main cause of a broken bond.Everyone of our age could no longer stand her attitude posted various kind of comments on web.She posted in her blog as reply, telling us that she didn't do that(as usual la.. she is good in acting..most of us think that she at least deserve to be in Bollywood if Hollywood reject her.) and accusing ME that I'm the 1 starting to make stories around.Just for your information, I don't fancy socialising so I don't think I'm in good term with everyone.Too bad, as luck would have it, most of our friends turned out to be supporting me than the self-claimed-good-with-everyone bitch "babe".She said I m the 1 making rumour and she said she NEVER TALK ANYTHING BAD ABOUT ANYONE BEHIND THAT PARTICULAR PERSON.Ok.Fine, I don't give a damm to such bitch "babe".Time flies, most of us no longer mention about this incident(only in public, we usually talk with each other regarding her " good deeds") .

Weeks later, we discovered something wrong about what she had claimed earlier.She told us something bad about a girl in our class(I thought she never talk something bad about someone behind them?).Then, most of my friends know that she was nothing than a poor slut actress.But,among us,there are still 2 person trusting every single bullshit came out from this bitch "babe".One is the asshole who fancy girl more than anyone else, the other one is someone i don't wish to describe and mention here because she is a friend of mine.So the dumb asshole here is a male who claimed himself good with everyone in our form.Too bad,he never knew that there are actually most of us even the one he fancy of, don't like what he is doing now.This asshole trusted every single thing came out from the bitch "babe" 's mouth even the bad thing about the girl he fancy.Idiot, that's the most effective word I can use to describe him.Actually, the bitch "babe" criticised him more than anyone else of our age.But then he never realised.Now, days ago, he told my friend who is going to participate a competiton with him to be prepared and stop make preparation in a happy-go-lucky way.He told that friend that most of us told him that that friend wasn't preparing well for the competition.You know what?Is actually the bitch "babe" that told him about every single fucking things about the competition.

Conclusion is friends that are closest to us tend to hurt and back stab us more than anyone else.
That's friends.
Foes are actually true friends make us hate them as they stopped us from doing this and that for our own sake.
Friends are actually enemy that keep dragging us to the entrance of hell :) They want us die.

How about foes?Miss Pig was once not in good term with other 2 ladies because of some problems.Now she finally notice that the 2 that she had not in good term of are actually the true friends that will never hurt her.The 2 that she had been in good term of ,back stabbed her not once but more times that she could imagine.

So, what I wanna tell reader is those treating you nice right now are not 100% true friends and those treating you badly are not 100% enemy.

You cant assume that durian with thorns are not tasty because

once you open it and you taste it, you know it is GREAT
Lemon may look nicer than durians but lemon is not as tasty as durian.

So Don't Judge A Book By Its Cover.
Check out the inner part before you make a conclusion about every single thing.

As for now, I'm kinda tired of having friends.

I rather have my doggie than good-in-acting-but-back-stabbed-you-behind friends.